I'm not doing a typical review for this one, because it always feels weird to review a book like this, where it's partially a biography and partially advice. Who am I to review someone's lived experience? Especially, in this case, because I ended up needing to hustle to finish reading a bunch of books being considered for our state book awards and haven't had time to finish this one...but that's neither here nor there.
Thus far, I'm really enjoying the book. It's very insightful, giving so many new ways to think about things and consider how attitudes are shaped from a very young age. So many things get treated as "normal" or as something small that doesn't matter as a result of US culture being shaped from inception by white supremacy, and this book reexamines things that are treated as default or that just straight up are not paid attention to and reminds us to be vigilant about what kids are learning as they observe the world around them and interact with the trusted adults in their lives.
One of the thing that stands out the most so far in my reading is being aware of whether the things we are choosing to address or not to address with the kids in our lives are because we truly think it's the best for them or if it's because we're uncomfortable with it. I for sure don't always have the perfect answer when I encounter certain situations, but I don't want to ever bail on having a talk that a child in my life needs because I'm uncomfortable with it or don't know exactly the right thing to say.
If you have kids, niblings, work with kids, etc I highly recommend checking this out. It's giving me a lot to think about, for sure.